Blind Dumfries woman shares how footy group changed her life
RNIB Scotland weekly telephone group, Football Focus, at their latest get together in-person. Jean is pictured at the bottom right, smiling and wearing a football scarf.
For Jean Robison from Dumfries, football has always been more than just a game. When sight loss began to affect her daily life, she discovered a new way to stay connected to the sport she loves, and, more importantly, to find a community that makes her feel understood and supported.
“I had an illness and it was affecting my eyesight,” Jean explains. “I went to hospital regularly and Dumfries and Galloway have a tremendous department… we are fortunate, we get looked after. They put me on to RNIB, and that’s how I came into this.”
Jean joined RNIB Scotland’s weekly football telephone chat, a group that brings together fans of all ages and backgrounds to share their passion for the game. “The setup is simple - you just pick up the phone,” she says. “At one o’clock your phone rings, and then you get everyone else coming on… there’s a funny element and you look forward to it.”
Although she admits she was a little nervous at first, Jean quickly settled in. “You have to get over the fact… I am now in the autumn of my days and I didn’t want to sound like an old granny,” she laughs. “But they make you feel welcome. Your contribution is applauded. As the weeks go on, you get more confident and give your opinion.”
That sense of belonging has been life-changing. “What changed is this: it gives you confidence,” Jean reflects. “They give you a laugh, they give you joy… you look forward to Tuesday at one o’clock. It makes a big difference. You feel accepted.”
The group even met in person recently, an experience Jean describes with warmth: “I can’t tell you the pleasure, the joy, the sheer enjoyment. It was wonderful.”
Her advice to anyone newly facing sight loss is simple: don’t be afraid to take that first step. “Just listen,” she says. “You’ll find people who are sympathetic, who are funny, who are good… and you’re bringing something good, adding another dimension. Life is to be lived. Some days it’s not good, but you bounce back, and that’s good.”
“When I wake up in the morning, I am here,” she says. “I enjoy life as much as I can. I have very good friends and I am part of a very special group on a Tuesday. Life is to be lived… so just enjoy it.”